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BDSM: Service-Topping and Financial-Domination

So I tend to think quite a lot about this topic, since it has been so intimately tied to my entire journey of sexuality since it’s awakening in my youth. Although I had certainly fancied my future career aspirations to include the charismatic leader of a freaky sex-cult, I knew I had to be a…

A View From the Other Side: #MenstruationMatters

I know there will inevitably be some up-in-arms that a cisgendered, heterosexual, male dominant freak would presume to speak on a matter so intimate and personal to women. As a man that has spent a lifetime in long-term intimate relationships with women, let me assure you that I have valid observations on the subject that…

Daddy Philosophy: On the Many Ways I Love Women

I wish I could say I love people, but that is simply not true. While there are a slight handful of men that I have life-long bonds of friendship and kinship with, the only man I have ever truly loved is myself. On the other hand there are a vast number of women that I…

On Self Pleasure and Self Denial: #MasturbationMonday

Re-linking an old post because the original link died when we migrated to our new domain. So as many of you may already be aware, I am a pretty sex-positive guy, though I’ve only been open and vocal about it for a handful of months now. My partners of course have known the vast…

Rant-Time: Orgasm Denial, Playing With Fire?

So one thing I’ve noticed about new and inexperienced doms is the propensity to dive into orgasm-control play. Maybe it makes them feel like a big man to have absolute authority over how and when their sub is allowed to have an orgasm. Sometimes I wonder though just how many men truly understand the functioning…

Rant-Time: Finding ‘The One’ by the Numbers

One of the most interesting things I have learned since taking on a vocal and active role in the online BDSM community is just how many people on either side of the d/s slash or of whatever gender expression really just want exactly what I have. A long-term, committed, romantic relationship with the freak of…

Rant-Time: Hucows WTF?

So I am already on the record as being very body image positive and very much currently engaged in an Adult Nursing Relationship with my wife. So you’d think that I’d probably be down with a kink that rolls those two things into one. The truth is very much different than fantasy however when it comes to Hucow play……

BDSM: Mistakes, We All Make Them…

So if you read my work of late you’ll notice that I think very highly of my ethical philosophy and my skills in the dark arts of kink. The blunt reality however, just like every other human being on the planet I am not perfect. I have made mistakes, and I’m not talking about the…

Daddy Philosophy: Io Saturnalia!

So it shouldn’t come as a shock to my readers that I adhere to the religion of the ancient Romans. It seems however that in the rush towards holiday inclusiveness these days, the festivals I hold dear get lost in the shuffle. It certainly doesn’t help that the early Catholic church intentionally set the dates…

BDSM: What Goes Up Must Go Down

So you wanna be a bad-ass, in-control, invincible alpha dom, you’d better be tough, and I’m not just talking about physical strength. Being a good dom requires emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and psychological fortitude in abundance. However even the most stalwart and steadfast of us can sometimes be reduced to a blubbering mess of negative emotions…