BDSM: Service-Topping and Financial-Domination

So I tend to think quite a lot about this topic, since it has been so intimately tied to my entire journey of sexuality since it’s awakening in my youth. Although I had certainly fancied my future career aspirations to include the charismatic leader of a freaky sex-cult, I knew I had to be a bit more realistic with a day-job; plan ‘B” though somehow became a gigolo. My natural talents and general appeal actually allowed me to set off on a deliberately planned path towards both of those goals as crazy as that all seems…

Aside from my general good-looks, charm, appeal, and wit, I was also blessed with an innate desire to pleasure and gratify women(yes I’m heterosexual), and a natural chameleon-like ability to become whatever type of lover my partner desires most. In my youth this took on the form of submission to the desires of a Mistress. I eventually came into a mentor-ship with a professional domme whom imparted to me that special flavour of Service-Topping, and the subtler art of Financial Domination that has become so fundamental to my style as a Dominant…

There is one big challenge however in all of this. I am a heterosexual cis-gendered male, and in our society women are very reluctant to outright pay for sex, the sex is often assumed to be the payment and there are so many men whom are eager to oblige for free. You will seldom ever actually see a straight-male Pro-Dom or Fin-Dom, although I sometimes hear rumours of them in large cities. But I am a kinky-pervert always up for a good challenge…

I fully realize that some of you may think prodom is just prostitution, and findom is just extortion. If you are one of those people maybe you shouldn’t even be reading this. I fully acknowledge that I am a whore, and it doesn’t in any way diminish my value as a human being. I provide services to my submissive in exchange for other voluntarily given consideration. But if you are going to make it in this business you’d better have the sort of skills to provide service worth paying for…

My form of service isn’t the wait-on-you hand-and-foot type; I won’t serve you drinks and food, I serve up a feast of orgasms chosen from a menu of your deepest desires. That sort of personalized service can only be provided in the context of a deeply intimate dominant/submissive dynamic. The service-dom needs to understand your psychology, and your kinks, and have the physical skills to appropriately manipulate those buttons to achieve the desired result. I require submission in order to ensure that I can take the appropriate steps to take my sub wherever she needs to go, even though often every fiber of her being would wish to resist in the moment…

Truly understanding your sub’s desires means that often the services that I provide are of a sadistic, cruel, or demeaning nature, but such is the character of a sado-masochistic relationship. I service her with punishment because she derives pleasure from it. Pain and psychological manipulation are powerful tools when employed with precision, care and purpose. There are no actual punishments, only rewards, only service…

I bring only tears of joy from the volume and severe intensity of the orgasms I provide her, never from pain or trauma. I continually try to push the limits of her capacity to endure pleasure. I seek only to give her whatever satisfaction she desires and she rewards me with ownership of her person, but that isn’t quite enough for me. I put in a tremendous amount of time, energy, physical exertion, and psychological capacity in the effort to literally provide hours of this service every day and frankly Daddy gots to get paid…

But since I have committed to the exclusive service of my submissive, wife, and soul-mate I’ve had to go into retirement. But my sub keeps me well, and attends to my financial needs, but she fulfills the needs of my soul somehow even more. She appreciates me in all ways and I appreciate her enough to never again provide service to another, no matter the price offered it could never be worth it…

 

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