Daddy-Land: In-Demand

If you are a reader on 24/7 Players, or a follower on social media, you are already going to be aware that I think pretty highly of my sexual prowess. Terms like ‘alpha’, ‘the man’, ‘pro-dom’ and ‘sex-god’ get tossed around as frequently as a football on Sunday around here. But I didn’t just wake-up…

BDSM: DDLG and MDLB Dynamics

I have to admit that when I reflect upon the complexities of the over-arching BDSM meta-dynamic that I share with my wife it can get a bit hard to make sense of. Perhaps it’s easiest to start with our titles and work from there; she is Mommy, I am Daddy… But what does that even…

Vibrations: #MasturbationMonday

  In recent weeks our sex-toy collection has more than doubled as we’ve taken to testing several new products. It seems like every-other-day a package arrives with some new-fangled gadget promising ever-more orgasmic sessions. The only problem with this is that on the whole, there is not a lot of masturbation going on in our…

BDSM: New Tricks

You would think that after 15 years with the same partner, through thousands of sessions, you probably shouldn’t expect too many surprises in the bedroom. Last night’s session however, showed me the folly of that sort of thinking… It was just another random Friday night. Neither of us were feeling particularly up for a session,…

BDSM: Adventures in Electro-play

Whenever I used to think about electricity, I would mostly associate it with fear. So whenever electro-play or e-stim would come up in the course of our periodic BDSM negotiations it was often I who was reluctant to engage. As time went on though I found myself softening my limit to the point where I…

BDSM: Age Matters

If you’ve any familiarity with my writing, you’ll notice that I do not shy away from controversial opinions. Yet I do not espouse these positions simply for the sake of generating attention or from a place of prejudice, I formulate my opinions over the course of many years, reflecting on my personal experience and observations…

BDSM: Bio-hacking Your Relationship

As crazy as it’s going to sound, if I were ever to give a TED talk, it would probably be on this subject. I certainly don’t discount the possibility that at some point in the future, I might in-fact give such a talk, or perhaps write a book, about the secrets of using BDSM to…

The Sub’s Side: Brat Taming

Image Credit: OTTO from Canada[CC BY 2.0] It was Sunday night, and it was a night of switching to remember.  Daddy had been bad today, struggling his way through some little-space issues, and openly antagonizing me. It was his way of bratting though, that ended up getting us into a real argument. We worked it…

BDSM: Weaning Time

I sadly have to report, that due to unforeseen medical circumstances, I have to put our Adult Nursing Relationship on hold for the foreseeable future. And while the end of this particular era is most unwelcome, perhaps I can at least use our own tragic example to illustrate some finer points of BDSM philosophy so…

The Sub’s Side: Sex-Tape

A recent conversation on Twitter has me thinking about sex tapes. More to the point, sex tapes that I’ve been in. The story of my first one is an interesting one that I’d like to share. When I was in my early twenties I met a guy online. It so happens to be from the…