The Sub’s Side: Code Red

Recently I came across a tweet asking people for their take on sex while menstruating. Funny thing was that I had already started writing this blog post. Sessions like these, in my opinion, need to be immortalized. Here is just how one of those sessions played out. I came to bed wearing nothing but my…

The Sub’s Side: Reflections on 2019

I want to take this opportunity to look back at 2019 and the personal growth I’ve made.  It’s been a difficult year health-wise.  I had to be off work for about 5 months while we figured out what was going on with me and get things under control.  Things are better now and I’m going…

The Sub’s Side: Brat Taming

Image Credit: OTTO from Canada[CC BY 2.0] It was Sunday night, and it was a night of switching to remember.  Daddy had been bad today, struggling his way through some little-space issues, and openly antagonizing me. It was his way of bratting though, that ended up getting us into a real argument. We worked it…

The Sub’s Side: Sex-Tape

A recent conversation on Twitter has me thinking about sex tapes. More to the point, sex tapes that I’ve been in. The story of my first one is an interesting one that I’d like to share. When I was in my early twenties I met a guy online. It so happens to be from the…

The Sub’s Side: Tradecraft #KOTW

As I watched daddy using paracord to refurbish one of our crops that had broken I couldn’t help but think how nice it looked and talented daddy is. He’s a man of many talents both inside and outside of the bedroom. A few days later we decided on a whim to have a craft day….

The Sub’s Side: On Reactions

Reactions to situations can be interesting when you examine them. I have a particular reaction to threats in my relationship with my husband that in fact is not a bad one. Both of us benefit from it tremendously. We didn’t always realize that this is my natural reaction. It took many years of being together…

The Sub’s Side: Working It Out

My husband, who I refer to as Daddy, and I had a dying marriage. We hit rock bottom at one point but we managed to revive our relationship to the point that it’s now better than it ever was. The fact is that relationships are hard work and are constantly changing. They require both partners…

The Sub’s Side: Adventures in Squirting…

My first time squirting would be something forgotten for years. I was 21 the first time it happened. Squirting was something I knew nothing about and this first time would be one of those times that it just kind of happened. While riding my boyfriend one night I got to the point of orgasm. I…

The Sub’s Side: Mommy’s Back-story

This is the story of how I found my place in the BDSM life-style.  Some may share very similar experiences to mine and some may be surprised by parts of my journey. I was only 15 when I first lost my virginity.  I dated the boy for 7 months, which seemed like a lifetime.  I…