BDSM: Weaning Time

I sadly have to report, that due to unforeseen medical circumstances, I have to put our Adult Nursing Relationship on hold for the foreseeable future. And while the end of this particular era is most unwelcome, perhaps I can at least use our own tragic example to illustrate some finer points of BDSM philosophy so…

Stuffing the Turkey: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Ms. Julia Steele Just another chapter in our ongoing d/s saga, you can find my other Masturbation Monday posts here, here, and here… As I awoke on Saturday morning I could immediately feel a powerful and uncomfortable pressure in my shorts, the proverbial ‘morning wood’ caused by a buildup of testosterone overnight. Nothing…

Gourmet Style: Garlic Crack

So I know what you’re probably thinking, how can you take a boring and unheralded staple like garlic to the next level. Well my friends it is possible with some time, dedication, and careful attention. As fate would have it, a family trip to a local farm netted me a half-dozen heads of choice heirloom…

Daddy Land: Injured Reserve

So as much as being a supremely confident, alpha-dominant tends to impart a feeling of invincibility, the fact of the matter is that when you are a player in the kink-game, there is an ever-present risk of severe injury, and even death inherent to your every-day sessions. And of course when you play multiple times…

Daddy Philosophy: Leveling Up

I realize that I tend to use a lot of sports and gaming analogies when discussing BDSM. There just seems to me to be a lot of cross-over, we are all just players in the great game. There are amateurs and professionals, winners and losers, masters and wannabes… But yet at one time every master-of-the-craft…

Rant Time: Materialism

As much as I have lived the urban hip-hop street life I have never quite understood that culture’s obsession with materialistic concerns. I have no desire to be dripping in diamonds, or gold. I much prefer the labels of my designer clothes to be on the inside rather than plastered ostentatiously on the front. I…

BDSM: My Journey

I originally wrote this story almost one year ago in the aftermath of some pretty tumultuous events, though it seems like a lifetime ago. It was never intended for publication, it was merely a way for me to make sense of the craziness that my life had become at that point. This is not in…

BDSM: Sub-space and Dom-flow

So I happened across an interesting article recently (this one) concerning the psychology of BDSM and the effects on it’s practitioners. It certainly got me to thinking about my experiences with the altered state known among the initiated as sub-space.  As a long-time freak daddy with experience on both sides of the D/S slash, I’ve…

Tasting Notes: Fonseca Delicia

So I’m back with yet another Cuban cigar review. I know it’s been all freaky-sex, all the time around here lately, but the reality is, I don’t smoke many cigars during the winter in Canada. Now that we are firmly into the spring, I can justify stepping out for a good forty-five minute herf without…

A Punishing Load: #MasturbationMonday

This particular post is really just another chapter in the on-going saga of our d/s relationship. Most pertinently and fittingly, this chapter takes off where the (true)story-line of my first #MasturbationMonday post left off… So some-how through a series of extenuating circumstances, I found myself the unwilling subject of chastity for a full forty-eight hours;…