Gourmet Style: Garlic Crack

So I know what you’re probably thinking, how can you take a boring and unheralded staple like garlic to the next level. Well my friends it is possible with some time, dedication, and careful attention. As fate would have it, a family trip to a local farm netted me a half-dozen heads of choice heirloom…

Daddy Land: Injured Reserve

So as much as being a supremely confident, alpha-dominant tends to impart a feeling of invincibility, the fact of the matter is that when you are a player in the kink-game, there is an ever-present risk of severe injury, and even death inherent to your every-day sessions. And of course when you play multiple times…

Daddy Philosophy: Leveling Up

I realize that I tend to use a lot of sports and gaming analogies when discussing BDSM. There just seems to me to be a lot of cross-over, we are all just players in the great game. There are amateurs and professionals, winners and losers, masters and wannabes… But yet at one time every master-of-the-craft…

Rant Time: Materialism

As much as I have lived the urban hip-hop street life I have never quite understood that culture’s obsession with materialistic concerns. I have no desire to be dripping in diamonds, or gold. I much prefer the labels of my designer clothes to be on the inside rather than plastered ostentatiously on the front. I…

The Sub’s Side: On Reactions

Reactions to situations can be interesting when you examine them. I have a particular reaction to threats in my relationship with my husband that in fact is not a bad one. Both of us benefit from it tremendously. We didn’t always realize that this is my natural reaction. It took many years of being together…

BDSM: My Journey

I originally wrote this story almost one year ago in the aftermath of some pretty tumultuous events, though it seems like a lifetime ago. It was never intended for publication, it was merely a way for me to make sense of the craziness that my life had become at that point. This is not in…

The Sub’s Side: Working It Out

My husband, who I refer to as Daddy, and I had a dying marriage. We hit rock bottom at one point but we managed to revive our relationship to the point that it’s now better than it ever was. The fact is that relationships are hard work and are constantly changing. They require both partners…

BDSM: Sub-space and Dom-flow

So I happened across an interesting article recently (this one) concerning the psychology of BDSM and the effects on it’s practitioners. It certainly got me to thinking about my experiences with the altered state known among the initiated as sub-space.  As a long-time freak daddy with experience on both sides of the D/S slash, I’ve…

The Sub’s Side: Adventures in Squirting…

My first time squirting would be something forgotten for years. I was 21 the first time it happened. Squirting was something I knew nothing about and this first time would be one of those times that it just kind of happened. While riding my boyfriend one night I got to the point of orgasm. I…

Tasting Notes: Fonseca Delicia

So I’m back with yet another Cuban cigar review. I know it’s been all freaky-sex, all the time around here lately, but the reality is, I don’t smoke many cigars during the winter in Canada. Now that we are firmly into the spring, I can justify stepping out for a good forty-five minute herf without…