Rant Time: Crazy Neighbors

For much of 2020 it has felt like the world has gone completely mad, as if an unchecked fire was slowly burning our outdated social institutions to the ground. Unfortunately for my American neighbors, this isn’t just a poignant simile, but an actual reality in the wake of widespread protest and rioting… While I am…

Rant Time: Feeding the Trolls

It’s been nearly 2 months since my last rant, and in case anyone was also alarmed by this unusual behaviour, I most sincerely intend to rectify this situation post-haste. I’m sure everyone has happened upon a few haters in their daily-grind, one can hardly navigate their existence on the interwebs of global assholes anonymous without…

Rant Time: Pandemic Damage

Those who know me, will know that first and foremost I identify as a Philosopher of the ancient Stoic school. So it probably seems like a contradiction that an adherent to a philosophy which teaches acceptance of struggle and stresses compassion towards, and the equality of all humanity, should so often be intolerant and scornful…

Rant Time: Family Matters

I suppose like most other people, I’ve had my share of friction and drama with not only my own extended family, but also with the families of my romantic-partners. This was perhaps quite a bit easier to understand while I was still a youth. What parent wouldn’t look at a handsome, confident, and entirely too…

Rant Time: Materialism

As much as I have lived the urban hip-hop street life I have never quite understood that culture’s obsession with materialistic concerns. I have no desire to be dripping in diamonds, or gold. I much prefer the labels of my designer clothes to be on the inside rather than plastered ostentatiously on the front. I…

Rant Time: Adventures in Twitter

Maybe I’m old but I never really got into social media beyond signing up to Facebook in 2007. Of course I write on this here blog, but when I started to write about the more salacious aspects of my lifestyle, I needed to find a more appropriate outlet to publicize my work. So it was…

Rant-Time: Orgasm Denial, Playing With Fire?

So one thing I’ve noticed about new and inexperienced doms is the propensity to dive into orgasm-control play. Maybe it makes them feel like a big man to have absolute authority over how and when their sub is allowed to have an orgasm. Sometimes I wonder though just how many men truly understand the functioning…

Rant-Time: Finding ‘The One’ by the Numbers

One of the most interesting things I have learned since taking on a vocal and active role in the online BDSM community is just how many people on either side of the d/s slash or of whatever gender expression really just want exactly what I have. A long-term, committed, romantic relationship with the freak of…

Rant-Time: Hucows WTF?

So I am already on the record as being very body image positive and very much currently engaged in an Adult Nursing Relationship with my wife. So you’d think that I’d probably be down with a kink that rolls those two things into one. The truth is very much different than fantasy however when it comes to Hucow play……

Rant-Time: Thoughts on Thots

So if you happen to be following various hella-freakay-peeps on social media like I do you will likely have caught wind of the latest kerfuffle blowing up the twitterverse; the so called #Thotaudit…Hordes of unwashed and unlaid incel trolls have taken to reporting their favourite cam-girls to the I.R.S. for potential tax-evasion… But maybe you…