Rant Time: Materialism

As much as I have lived the urban hip-hop street life I have never quite understood that culture’s obsession with materialistic concerns. I have no desire to be dripping in diamonds, or gold. I much prefer the labels of my designer clothes to be on the inside rather than plastered ostentatiously on the front. I…

Rant Time: Adventures in Twitter

Maybe I’m old but I never really got into social media beyond signing up to Facebook in 2007. Of course I write on this here blog, but when I started to write about the more salacious aspects of my lifestyle, I needed to find a more appropriate outlet to publicize my work. So it was…

Rant-Time: Orgasm Denial, Playing With Fire?

So one thing I’ve noticed about new and inexperienced doms is the propensity to dive into orgasm-control play. Maybe it makes them feel like a big man to have absolute authority over how and when their sub is allowed to have an orgasm. Sometimes I wonder though just how many men truly understand the functioning…

Rant-Time: Finding ‘The One’ by the Numbers

One of the most interesting things I have learned since taking on a vocal and active role in the online BDSM community is just how many people on either side of the d/s slash or of whatever gender expression really just want exactly what I have. A long-term, committed, romantic relationship with the freak of…

Rant-Time: Hucows WTF?

So I am already on the record as being very body image positive and very much currently engaged in an Adult Nursing Relationship with my wife. So you’d think that I’d probably be down with a kink that rolls those two things into one. The truth is very much different than fantasy however when it comes to Hucow play……

Rant-Time: Thoughts on Thots

So if you happen to be following various hella-freakay-peeps on social media like I do you will likely have caught wind of the latest kerfuffle blowing up the twitterverse; the so called #Thotaudit…Hordes of unwashed and unlaid incel trolls have taken to reporting their favourite cam-girls to the I.R.S. for potential tax-evasion… But maybe you…

Rant-Time: BDSM Newbs

I’ve generally been going off on quite a lot of rants lately. It’s almost as if I just woke up one day and realized I’m an elitist jerk, perhaps even an old codger. It seems pretty lame of me to take to a community of tolerance for deviance and try to drone on about things…

Rant-Time: Fake Doms

So yes it’s right about time for a rant. This particular rant has been brewing for a while now. A scourge has somehow infected not only the internet sphere, but takes itself offline with usually disastrous consequences; the blight of the fake dom. See I have been a real dom for four-score seasons now, but…

Rant-Time: Fake ‘Alphas’

I apologize in advance for the generally egotistical tone of this article but it is very difficult to treat this subject matter thoroughly without pointing out some very harsh realities…These days in the seedy underbelly of the internet, there has sprung up a disturbing cult of ‘manliness’, picture an inspirational seminar full of desperate, pitiful…