A Punishing Load: #MasturbationMonday

This particular post is really just another chapter in the on-going saga of our d/s relationship. Most pertinently and fittingly, this chapter takes off where the (true)story-line of my first #MasturbationMonday post left off… So some-how through a series of extenuating circumstances, I found myself the unwilling subject of chastity for a full forty-eight hours;…

BDSM: On Maintenance Spankings

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you will be familiar with spankings. As a Daddy, discipline in the form of physical chastisement plays an integral role in my dynamic. But of course impact-play for this Daddy, is never employed as a punishment, when your partner is a masochist, it becomes a…

The Sub’s Side: Mommy’s Back-story

This is the story of how I found my place in the BDSM life-style.  Some may share very similar experiences to mine and some may be surprised by parts of my journey. I was only 15 when I first lost my virginity.  I dated the boy for 7 months, which seemed like a lifetime.  I…

Rant Time: Adventures in Twitter

Maybe I’m old but I never really got into social media beyond signing up to Facebook in 2007. Of course I write on this here blog, but when I started to write about the more salacious aspects of my lifestyle, I needed to find a more appropriate outlet to publicize my work. So it was…

Daddy Philosophy: On Being Collared

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you should be aware of the significance of a collar. Inside of the bedroom, collars are useful for various forms of pet-play, bondage, and domination. In public however, a collar is a symbol of devotion, like a wedding ring, it decries ownership. In the protocol…

Masturbation by Proxy: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Focused and Filthy  People might wonder how I handle the process of punishment in my d/s dynamic. And it’s probably not at all the way you would think. Any responsible Daddy however is going to need to have some grasp of the concepts of discipline. Daddies especially need to approach this topic though…

BDSM: A Tale of Two Sessions

Please note: This post is non-fiction presented in the form of erotica. It contains explicit accounts of BDSM and sex. Reader discretion is advised. The second thing I thought of when I awoke that morning was that today was Mommy’s birthday, because of course the first thing I thought of was the very reason she…

BDSM: Service-Topping and Financial-Domination

So I tend to think quite a lot about this topic, since it has been so intimately tied to my entire journey of sexuality since it’s awakening in my youth. Although I had certainly fancied my future career aspirations to include the charismatic leader of a freaky sex-cult, I knew I had to be a…

A View From the Other Side: #MenstruationMatters

I know there will inevitably be some up-in-arms that a cisgendered, heterosexual, male dominant freak would presume to speak on a matter so intimate and personal to women. As a man that has spent a lifetime in long-term intimate relationships with women, let me assure you that I have valid observations on the subject that…

Daddy Philosophy: On the Many Ways I Love Women

I wish I could say I love people, but that is simply not true. While there are a slight handful of men that I have life-long bonds of friendship and kinship with, the only man I have ever truly loved is myself. On the other hand there are a vast number of women that I…