Rant Time: Adventures in Twitter

Maybe I’m old but I never really got into social media beyond signing up to Facebook in 2007. Of course I write on this here blog, but when I started to write about the more salacious aspects of my lifestyle, I needed to find a more appropriate outlet to publicize my work. So it was…

Daddy Philosophy: On Being Collared

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you should be aware of the significance of a collar. Inside of the bedroom, collars are useful for various forms of pet-play, bondage, and domination. In public however, a collar is a symbol of devotion, like a wedding ring, it decries ownership. In the protocol…

Masturbation by Proxy: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Focused and Filthy  People might wonder how I handle the process of punishment in my d/s dynamic. And it’s probably not at all the way you would think. Any responsible Daddy however is going to need to have some grasp of the concepts of discipline. Daddies especially need to approach this topic though…

BDSM: A Tale of Two Sessions

Please note: This post is non-fiction presented in the form of erotica. It contains explicit accounts of BDSM and sex. Reader discretion is advised. The second thing I thought of when I awoke that morning was that today was Mommy’s birthday, because of course the first thing I thought of was the very reason she…

BDSM: Service-Topping and Financial-Domination

So I tend to think quite a lot about this topic, since it has been so intimately tied to my entire journey of sexuality since it’s awakening in my youth. Although I had certainly fancied my future career aspirations to include the charismatic leader of a freaky sex-cult, I knew I had to be a…

A View From the Other Side: #MenstruationMatters

I know there will inevitably be some up-in-arms that a cisgendered, heterosexual, male dominant freak would presume to speak on a matter so intimate and personal to women. As a man that has spent a lifetime in long-term intimate relationships with women, let me assure you that I have valid observations on the subject that…

Daddy Philosophy: On the Many Ways I Love Women

I wish I could say I love people, but that is simply not true. While there are a slight handful of men that I have life-long bonds of friendship and kinship with, the only man I have ever truly loved is myself. On the other hand there are a vast number of women that I…

On Self Pleasure and Self Denial: #MasturbationMonday

  So as many of you may already be aware, I am a pretty sex-positive guy, though I’ve only been open and vocal about it for a handful of months now. My partners of course have known the vast majority of my deepest, darkest secrets, for the most part, however, of the twenty-something years I’ve…

Rant-Time: Orgasm Denial, Playing With Fire?

So one thing I’ve noticed about new and inexperienced doms is the propensity to dive into orgasm-control play. Maybe it makes them feel like a big man to have absolute authority over how and when their sub is allowed to have an orgasm. Sometimes I wonder though just how many men truly understand the functioning…

Rant-Time: Finding ‘The One’ by the Numbers

One of the most interesting things I have learned since taking on a vocal and active role in the online BDSM community is just how many people on either side of the d/s slash or of whatever gender expression really just want exactly what I have. A long-term, committed, romantic relationship with the freak of…