The Sub’s Side: Reflections on 2019

I want to take this opportunity to look back at 2019 and the personal growth I’ve made.  It’s been a difficult year health-wise.  I had to be off work for about 5 months while we figured out what was going on with me and get things under control.  Things are better now and I’m going…

Daddy Philosophy: Aging Alphas

People often attempt, for religious reasons, to intentionally disregard the indisputable scientific fact that humans are just another species of simian. Homo Sapiens are really just one of the handful of flavours of land-ape, so obviously we could probably stand to learn quite a bit about human nature through the study of the societal structure…

BDSM: Adventures in Electro-play

Whenever I used to think about electricity, I would mostly associate it with fear. So whenever electro-play or e-stim would come up in the course of our periodic BDSM negotiations it was often I who was reluctant to engage. As time went on though I found myself softening my limit to the point where I…

Daddy Philosophy: Self-confidence

Consistently across cultures one of the personality traits that people of all genders find attractive is confidence. Of course people also equally find false-confidence unattractive, how does one find that balance. Unfortunately though, I don’t seem to have any secret formula for instant confidence; in my own experience, confidence is a product of competence. While…

BDSM: Age Matters

If you’ve any familiarity with my writing, you’ll notice that I do not shy away from controversial opinions. Yet I do not espouse these positions simply for the sake of generating attention or from a place of prejudice, I formulate my opinions over the course of many years, reflecting on my personal experience and observations…

BDSM: Bio-hacking Your Relationship

As crazy as it’s going to sound, if I were ever to give a TED talk, it would probably be on this subject. I certainly don’t discount the possibility that at some point in the future, I might in-fact give such a talk, or perhaps write a book, about the secrets of using BDSM to…

The Sub’s Side: Brat Taming

Image Credit: OTTO from Canada[CC BY 2.0] It was Sunday night, and it was a night of switching to remember.  Daddy had been bad today, struggling his way through some little-space issues, and openly antagonizing me. It was his way of bratting though, that ended up getting us into a real argument. We worked it…

BDSM: Weaning Time

I sadly have to report, that due to unforeseen medical circumstances, I have to put our Adult Nursing Relationship on hold for the foreseeable future. And while the end of this particular era is most unwelcome, perhaps I can at least use our own tragic example to illustrate some finer points of BDSM philosophy so…

The Sub’s Side: Sex-Tape

A recent conversation on Twitter has me thinking about sex tapes. More to the point, sex tapes that I’ve been in. The story of my first one is an interesting one that I’d like to share. When I was in my early twenties I met a guy online. It so happens to be from the…

Stuffing the Turkey: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Ms. Julia Steele Just another chapter in our ongoing d/s saga, you can find my other Masturbation Monday posts here, here, and here… As I awoke on Saturday morning I could immediately feel a powerful and uncomfortable pressure in my shorts, the proverbial ‘morning wood’ caused by a buildup of testosterone overnight. Nothing…