The Sub’s Side: Code Red

Recently I came across a tweet asking people for their take on sex while menstruating. Funny thing was that I had already started writing this blog post. Sessions like these, in my opinion, need to be immortalized. Here is just how one of those sessions played out. I came to bed wearing nothing but my…

BDSM: Withdrawal Symptoms

It’s been a while since my last update on the state of our Adult Nursing Relationship. Where I last left off, we were taking a break due to some interactions with some new medication that Mommy was taking. Ultimately that break lasted but a few short weeks…I had taken that time to do some research and…

Rant Time: Family Matters

I suppose like most other people, I’ve had my share of friction and drama with not only my own extended family, but also with the families of my romantic-partners. This was perhaps quite a bit easier to understand while I was still a youth. What parent wouldn’t look at a handsome, confident, and entirely too…

The Sub’s Side: Reflections on 2019

I want to take this opportunity to look back at 2019 and the personal growth I’ve made.  It’s been a difficult year health-wise.  I had to be off work for about 5 months while we figured out what was going on with me and get things under control.  Things are better now and I’m going…

Daddy Philosophy: Aging Alphas

People often attempt, for religious reasons, to intentionally disregard the indisputable scientific fact that humans are just another species of simian. Homo Sapiens are really just one of the handful of flavours of land-ape, so obviously we could probably stand to learn quite a bit about human nature through the study of the societal structure…

Daddy Philosophy: Self-confidence

Consistently across cultures one of the personality traits that people of all genders find attractive is confidence. Of course people also equally find false-confidence unattractive, how does one find that balance. Unfortunately though, I don’t seem to have any secret formula for instant confidence; in my own experience, confidence is a product of competence. While…

BDSM: Age Matters

If you’ve any familiarity with my writing, you’ll notice that I do not shy away from controversial opinions. Yet I do not espouse these positions simply for the sake of generating attention or from a place of prejudice, I formulate my opinions over the course of many years, reflecting on my personal experience and observations…

BDSM: Bio-hacking Your Relationship

As crazy as it’s going to sound, if I were ever to give a TED talk, it would probably be on this subject. I certainly don’t discount the possibility that at some point in the future, I might in-fact give such a talk, or perhaps write a book, about the secrets of using BDSM to…

BDSM: Weaning Time

I sadly have to report, that due to unforeseen medical circumstances, I have to put our Adult Nursing Relationship on hold for the foreseeable future. And while the end of this particular era is most unwelcome, perhaps I can at least use our own tragic example to illustrate some finer points of BDSM philosophy so…

The Sub’s Side: Sex-Tape

A recent conversation on Twitter has me thinking about sex tapes. More to the point, sex tapes that I’ve been in. The story of my first one is an interesting one that I’d like to share. When I was in my early twenties I met a guy online. It so happens to be from the…