So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you will be familiar with spankings. As a Daddy, discipline in the form of physical chastisement plays an integral role in my dynamic. But of course impact-play for this Daddy, is never employed as a punishment, when your partner is a masochist, it becomes a…
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Daddy Philosophy: On Being Collared
So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you should be aware of the significance of a collar. Inside of the bedroom, collars are useful for various forms of pet-play, bondage, and domination. In public however, a collar is a symbol of devotion, like a wedding ring, it decries ownership. In the protocol…
BDSM: A Tale of Two Sessions
Please note: This post is non-fiction presented in the form of erotica. It contains explicit accounts of BDSM and sex. Reader discretion is advised. The second thing I thought of when I awoke that morning was that today was Mommy’s birthday, because of course the first thing I thought of was the very reason she…
BDSM: Service-Topping and Financial-Domination
So I tend to think quite a lot about this topic, since it has been so intimately tied to my entire journey of sexuality since it’s awakening in my youth. Although I had certainly fancied my future career aspirations to include the charismatic leader of a freaky sex-cult, I knew I had to be a…
A View From the Other Side: #MenstruationMatters
I know there will inevitably be some up-in-arms that a cisgendered, heterosexual, male dominant freak would presume to speak on a matter so intimate and personal to women. As a man that has spent a lifetime in long-term intimate relationships with women, let me assure you that I have valid observations on the subject that…
Rant-Time: Orgasm Denial, Playing With Fire?
So one thing I’ve noticed about new and inexperienced doms is the propensity to dive into orgasm-control play. Maybe it makes them feel like a big man to have absolute authority over how and when their sub is allowed to have an orgasm. Sometimes I wonder though just how many men truly understand the functioning…
Rant-Time: Hucows WTF?
So I am already on the record as being very body image positive and very much currently engaged in an Adult Nursing Relationship with my wife. So you’d think that I’d probably be down with a kink that rolls those two things into one. The truth is very much different than fantasy however when it comes to Hucow play……
BDSM: Mistakes, We All Make Them…
So if you read my work of late you’ll notice that I think very highly of my ethical philosophy and my skills in the dark arts of kink. The blunt reality however, just like every other human being on the planet I am not perfect. I have made mistakes, and I’m not talking about the…
Daddy Philosophy: Io Saturnalia!
So it shouldn’t come as a shock to my readers that I adhere to the religion of the ancient Romans. It seems however that in the rush towards holiday inclusiveness these days, the festivals I hold dear get lost in the shuffle. It certainly doesn’t help that the early Catholic church intentionally set the dates…
BDSM: What Goes Up Must Go Down
So you wanna be a bad-ass, in-control, invincible alpha dom, you’d better be tough, and I’m not just talking about physical strength. Being a good dom requires emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and psychological fortitude in abundance. However even the most stalwart and steadfast of us can sometimes be reduced to a blubbering mess of negative emotions…
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