BDSM: Withdrawal Symptoms

It’s been a while since my last update on the state of our¬†Adult Nursing Relationship. Where I last left off, we were taking a break due to some interactions with some new medication that Mommy was taking. Ultimately that break lasted but a few short weeks…I had taken that time to do some research and…

BDSM: New Tricks

You would think that after 15 years with the same partner, through thousands of sessions, you probably shouldn’t expect too many surprises in the bedroom. Last night’s session however, showed me the folly of that sort of thinking… It was just another random Friday night. Neither of us were feeling particularly up for a session,…

BDSM: Adventures in Electro-play

Whenever I used to think about electricity, I would mostly associate it with fear. So whenever electro-play or e-stim would come up in the course of our periodic BDSM negotiations it was often I who was reluctant to engage. As time went on though I found myself softening my limit to the point where I…

BDSM: Age Matters

If you’ve any familiarity with my writing, you’ll notice that I do not shy away from controversial opinions. Yet I do not espouse these positions simply for the sake of generating attention or from a place of prejudice, I formulate my opinions over the course of many years, reflecting on my personal experience and observations…

BDSM: Bio-hacking Your Relationship

As crazy as it’s going to sound, if I were ever to give a TED talk, it would probably be on this subject. I certainly don’t discount the possibility that at some point in the future, I might in-fact give such a talk, or perhaps write a book, about the secrets of using BDSM to…

BDSM: Weaning Time

I sadly have to report, that due to unforeseen medical circumstances, I have to put our Adult Nursing Relationship on hold for the foreseeable future. And while the end of this particular era is most unwelcome, perhaps I can at least use our own tragic example to illustrate some finer points of BDSM philosophy so…

BDSM: My Journey

I originally wrote this story almost one year ago in the aftermath of some pretty tumultuous events, though it seems like a lifetime ago. It was never intended for publication, it was merely a way for me to make sense of the craziness that my life had become at that point. This is not in…

BDSM: Sub-space and Dom-flow

So I happened across an interesting article recently (this one) concerning the psychology of BDSM and the effects on it’s practitioners. It certainly got me to thinking about my experiences with the altered state known among the initiated as sub-space.¬† As a long-time freak daddy with experience on both sides of the D/S slash, I’ve…

The Sub’s Side: Adventures in Squirting…

My first time squirting would be something forgotten for years. I was 21 the first time it happened. Squirting was something I knew nothing about and this first time would be one of those times that it just kind of happened. While riding my boyfriend one night I got to the point of orgasm. I…

BDSM: On Maintenance Spankings

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you will be familiar with spankings. As a Daddy, discipline in the form of physical chastisement plays an integral role in my dynamic. But of course impact-play for this Daddy, is never employed as a punishment, when your partner is a masochist, it becomes a…