BDSM: My Journey

I originally wrote this story almost one year ago in the aftermath of some pretty tumultuous events, though it seems like a lifetime ago. It was never intended for publication, it was merely a way for me to make sense of the craziness that my life had become at that point. This is not in…

BDSM: Sub-space and Dom-flow

So I happened across an interesting article recently (this one) concerning the psychology of BDSM and the effects on it’s practitioners. It certainly got me to thinking about my experiences with the altered state known among the initiated as sub-space.  As a long-time freak daddy with experience on both sides of the D/S slash, I’ve…

The Sub’s Side: Adventures in Squirting…

My first time squirting would be something forgotten for years. I was 21 the first time it happened. Squirting was something I knew nothing about and this first time would be one of those times that it just kind of happened. While riding my boyfriend one night I got to the point of orgasm. I…

A Punishing Load: #MasturbationMonday

This particular post is really just another chapter in the on-going saga of our d/s relationship. Most pertinently and fittingly, this chapter takes off where the (true)story-line of my first #MasturbationMonday post left off… So some-how through a series of extenuating circumstances, I found myself the unwilling subject of chastity for a full forty-eight hours;…

BDSM: On Maintenance Spankings

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you will be familiar with spankings. As a Daddy, discipline in the form of physical chastisement plays an integral role in my dynamic. But of course impact-play for this Daddy, is never employed as a punishment, when your partner is a masochist, it becomes a…

The Sub’s Side: Mommy’s Back-story

This is the story of how I found my place in the BDSM life-style.  Some may share very similar experiences to mine and some may be surprised by parts of my journey. I was only 15 when I first lost my virginity.  I dated the boy for 7 months, which seemed like a lifetime.  I…

Daddy Philosophy: On Being Collared

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you should be aware of the significance of a collar. Inside of the bedroom, collars are useful for various forms of pet-play, bondage, and domination. In public however, a collar is a symbol of devotion, like a wedding ring, it decries ownership. In the protocol…

Masturbation by Proxy: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Focused and Filthy  People might wonder how I handle the process of punishment in my d/s dynamic. And it’s probably not at all the way you would think. Any responsible Daddy however is going to need to have some grasp of the concepts of discipline. Daddies especially need to approach this topic though…

BDSM: A Tale of Two Sessions

Please note: This post is non-fiction presented in the form of erotica. It contains explicit accounts of BDSM and sex. Reader discretion is advised. The second thing I thought of when I awoke that morning was that today was Mommy’s birthday, because of course the first thing I thought of was the very reason she…

BDSM: Service-Topping and Financial-Domination

So I tend to think quite a lot about this topic, since it has been so intimately tied to my entire journey of sexuality since it’s awakening in my youth. Although I had certainly fancied my future career aspirations to include the charismatic leader of a freaky sex-cult, I knew I had to be a…