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BDSM: Adventures in Electro-play

Whenever I used to think about electricity, I would mostly associate it with fear. So whenever electro-play or e-stim would come up in the course of our periodic BDSM negotiations it was often I who was reluctant to engage. As time went on though I found myself softening my limit to the point where I…

Daddy Philosophy: Self-confidence

Consistently across cultures one of the personality traits that people of all genders find attractive is confidence. Of course people also equally find false-confidence unattractive, how does one find that balance. Unfortunately though, I don’t seem to have any secret formula for instant confidence; in my own experience, confidence is a product of competence. While…

BDSM: Age Matters

If you’ve any familiarity with my writing, you’ll notice that I do not shy away from controversial opinions. Yet I do not espouse these positions simply for the sake of generating attention or from a place of prejudice, I formulate my opinions over the course of many years, reflecting on my personal experience and observations…

BDSM: Bio-hacking Your Relationship

As crazy as it’s going to sound, if I were ever to give a TED talk, it would probably be on this subject. I certainly don’t discount the possibility that at some point in the future, I might in-fact give such a talk, or perhaps write a book, about the secrets of using BDSM to…

BDSM: Weaning Time

I sadly have to report, that due to unforeseen medical circumstances, I have to put our Adult Nursing Relationship on hold for the foreseeable future. And while the end of this particular era is most unwelcome, perhaps I can at least use our own tragic example to illustrate some finer points of BDSM philosophy so…

Stuffing the Turkey: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Ms. Julia Steele Just another chapter in our ongoing d/s saga, you can find my other Masturbation Monday posts here, here, and here… As I awoke on Saturday morning I could immediately feel a powerful and uncomfortable pressure in my shorts, the proverbial ‘morning wood’ caused by a buildup of testosterone overnight. Nothing…

Gourmet Style: Garlic Crack

So I know what you’re probably thinking, how can you take a boring and unheralded staple like garlic to the next level. Well my friends it is possible with some time, dedication, and careful attention. As fate would have it, a family trip to a local farm netted me a half-dozen heads of choice heirloom…

Daddy Land: Injured Reserve

So as much as being a supremely confident, alpha-dominant tends to impart a feeling of invincibility, the fact of the matter is that when you are a player in the kink-game, there is an ever-present risk of severe injury, and even death inherent to your every-day sessions. And of course when you play multiple times…

Daddy Philosophy: Leveling Up

I realize that I tend to use a lot of sports and gaming analogies when discussing BDSM. There just seems to me to be a lot of cross-over, we are all just players in the great game. There are amateurs and professionals, winners and losers, masters and wannabes… But yet at one time every master-of-the-craft…

Rant Time: Materialism

As much as I have lived the urban hip-hop street life I have never quite understood that culture’s obsession with materialistic concerns. I have no desire to be dripping in diamonds, or gold. I much prefer the labels of my designer clothes to be on the inside rather than plastered ostentatiously on the front. I…