Rant-Time: BDSM Newbs

I’ve generally been going off on quite a lot of rants lately. It’s almost as if I just woke up one day and realized I’m an elitist jerk, perhaps even an old codger. It seems pretty lame of me to take to a community of tolerance for deviance and try to drone on about things like responsibility and ethics, values and philosophy. How terribly uncool daddy of me…

While I certainly understand that I was once myself a neophyte kinkster, it was in a wholly different age, one before 50 Shades was on the nightstand of every slightly submissive woman in the world, even before the internet was commonly used for dating. Back in my day it was a subculture, something that people who really sought after it would find. It required real-world connections.

That base layer of in-person exclusivity allows for a certain filtering out of those who don’t have legitimate business being there in the first place. Nowadays anyone with a smart-phone suddenly has access, and the lulz are legendary indeed. Social media channels are jam-packed with wannabe ‘doms’ and ‘daddies’ who could never even get laid in a vanilla setting. Some try to use it as an end-around to sex, pretending the d/s and s/m aspects as a means to an end. These frauds probably wouldn’t know which end of the flogger to strike with…

This isn’t just some sort of pick-up line or game to me, this isn’t just some kind of hobby to me, this is the focus of a lifetime of work, of skills development and physical training, philosophical development, education, and most importantly hands-on experience. I am a professional slut, with high-end game. But only because I have put in the work…

When I wanted to get into the scene as a teen, I lucked out in that my first sexual relationship was with a freak that helped me to try pretty much anything, she was my Trainer, back when that was a thing. From there I went on to seek out a Mentor, something that has helped me in both my business life and my freak life. I reasoned that the surest way to learn how to dominate is to offer your submission to the realest most world-class people out there actually doing it in the real world. But then again my offer of submission comes with significant benefit to a Boss. Being a Henchman is really the only way you can get your foot in the door to learn from the best, how to be the best…

But as much as the fake loser net-daddies really get my goat, even more disturbing are the sub-curious ladies out there. The victims of the scourge of the disconnect between expectations and realities…

The blunt reality is the majority of women have a submissive tendency; whether caused by social conditioning or a matter of evolutionary anthropology is debatable though I ascribe to the latter; many more women would want a Christian Grey type then there are in existence to satisfy that demand. Your vanilla boyfriend who is absolutely sweet and cute, and everything you’ve ever wanted outside of the bedroom can’t be so easily converted into a bad-ass sex-god. Chasing Unicorns in this business leads to ruin, leave the game to the pros who have skills…

 

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