Body Stocking: #LingerieisForEveryone

I, like most women, love lingerie.  A nice piece can make you feel so sexy and get you into the right mood.  I have a wide variety of items in my drawer that I will pull out at different times.  Some items are more expensive than others, but I’m a practical woman.  I have a…

The Sub’s Side: Reflections on 2019

I want to take this opportunity to look back at 2019 and the personal growth I’ve made.  It’s been a difficult year health-wise.  I had to be off work for about 5 months while we figured out what was going on with me and get things under control.  Things are better now and I’m going…

BDSM: Age Matters

If you’ve any familiarity with my writing, you’ll notice that I do not shy away from controversial opinions. Yet I do not espouse these positions simply for the sake of generating attention or from a place of prejudice, I formulate my opinions over the course of many years, reflecting on my personal experience and observations…

The Sub’s Side: Adventures in Squirting…

My first time squirting would be something forgotten for years. I was 21 the first time it happened. Squirting was something I knew nothing about and this first time would be one of those times that it just kind of happened. While riding my boyfriend one night I got to the point of orgasm. I…

A Punishing Load: #MasturbationMonday

This particular post is really just another chapter in the on-going saga of our d/s relationship. Most pertinently and fittingly, this chapter takes off where the (true)story-line of my first #MasturbationMonday post left off… So some-how through a series of extenuating circumstances, I found myself the unwilling subject of chastity for a full forty-eight hours;…

BDSM: On Maintenance Spankings

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you will be familiar with spankings. As a Daddy, discipline in the form of physical chastisement plays an integral role in my dynamic. But of course impact-play for this Daddy, is never employed as a punishment, when your partner is a masochist, it becomes a…

The Sub’s Side: Mommy’s Back-story

This is the story of how I found my place in the BDSM life-style.  Some may share very similar experiences to mine and some may be surprised by parts of my journey. I was only 15 when I first lost my virginity.  I dated the boy for 7 months, which seemed like a lifetime.  I…

Rant Time: Adventures in Twitter

Maybe I’m old but I never really got into social media beyond signing up to Facebook in 2007. Of course I write on this here blog, but when I started to write about the more salacious aspects of my lifestyle, I needed to find a more appropriate outlet to publicize my work. So it was…

Daddy Philosophy: On Being Collared

So if you have any exposure to the BDSM lifestyle you should be aware of the significance of a collar. Inside of the bedroom, collars are useful for various forms of pet-play, bondage, and domination. In public however, a collar is a symbol of devotion, like a wedding ring, it decries ownership. In the protocol…

Masturbation by Proxy: #MasturbationMonday

Image Credit: Marie Rebelle Still in the process of relinking old posts with dead links, enjoy… People might wonder how I handle the process of punishment in my d/s dynamic. And it’s probably not at all the way you would think. Any responsible Daddy however is going to need to have some grasp of the…